I read through Poserboy71's post about his journey over to the doublev forum to attempt and expose Spyder (Vinnie?) as a jerk who is detrimental to Vinnie's connection with his fans. As I read, I just couldn't believe someone thought such a plan would work.
SpyderVinnie's crimes? Being a jerk. Not listening to other's points of view. Telling them to hit the road when he didn't agree with what they said.
I thought to myself, "Hey Elwyn, (that's my real name by the way), I bet with some careful manipulation, you could get Poserboy71 to act similarly to Spyder. That is:
Be a jerk: he tells me to get tissues, F off, Sh*t in a bowl, etc.
Not listen to other's points of view: there were at least 3 forum members who expressed themselves politely as not understanding and agreeing, to wit Poserboy calls them morons and tells us to re-read his statement. He couldn't bring himself to show any kind of empathy for any of the others. The closest was [paraphrasing here] 'Sorry you feel that way, but you're wrong.'
Tell them to hit the road when he didn't agree with what was said: I wasn't sure I'd actually get him to say it, and then he did!
Since Poserboy71 likes facts, below are a sampling of the exchanges.
erg2 wrote:I understand and agree. I am first in line to slag Vinnie and feel everything I said on this forum was my truth.
It feels like what was done accomplished two things:
1- proved Vinnie/Spyder was right
2- deceived a bunch of people that thought they had found a crew of like minded people to express their love of the music and commiserate on how they have been slighted.
I don't feel trust here. I feel like a random pawn in a small circle's exclusive game.
I will continue coming to VVFF because it truly is the best place for real Vinnie news, but just don't feel any urge to share. It feels like that small circle is laughing at us rubes.
TheGoodDr wrote:To be honest, I feel the same way being a relative 'newbie' here and didn't appreciate PB's recent comment that as newbies (to paraphrase) "we need to shape up". I felt like a real douche when I bagged PB and even wrote to Genebaby expressing my concern once I realised that what PB was doing was "for show". PB, you may have wanted Vinnie back in your life (so-to-speak) but blind Freddy can see the man is a completely beyond help, particularly from those who call themselves fans of his. Your recent comment to the newbies was smug and smacks of someone who thinks he's a better fan than us because you've been here longer. You've certainly managed to ostracise a part of the forum. And as I type this, I suddenly realise that perhaps Vinnie has achieved something after all.......Like I said in a previous post to you PB, when you were behaving like a jerk, you've become the very weapon Vinnie was wanting to wield here.
erg2 wrote:I'll open up here:
I'm a 40 year old, college educated professional running a multi-million dollar operation for a large organization with a home and family. I haven't had anyone to geek out with about KISS or VV since high school and thought I had finally found a forum of people I felt comfortable with who felt comfortable with me. Then it turns out I was used, along with several others, as a decoy to deceive a paranoid shut-in.
I've read your interactions with Spyder(Vinnie?) and while you claim altruistic goals, all I keep getting from it is "you said we couldn't fuck with you and we still fucked with you"...but we did it to prove a good point. That's a wonderful tactic to take with a person everyone on here claims to be extremely paranoid.
I may say some awful things, but I said them out loud and without my fingers crossed behind my back.
Oh yeah...and if you check my status, I had joined this forum months prior to Vinnie's legal woes...
poserboy71 wrote:Good for you Erg,
I explained it nice and clearly yet you CHOOSE to see it YOUR way. Go sign up to DoubleV Forums if this isn't to your liking.
It just sounds like you want to stir more shit or maybe you're just embarrassed that you went of on me when I "left ".
I didn't go there to 'FUCK " with anyone. I went there to be a fan yet I knew ( as well as most here) that the rug would be pulled out from under me.
AGAIN, the guys here let me pursue my fandom and they played it up FOR ME so I could get into the DoubleV. I could never hate these peoplebut I had to bash them because that's what SPYDER required of me to be a fan of Vinnie.
NOW WHAT THE FUCK DON'T YOU UNDERSTAND ???
erg2 wrote:Understood. You would like only the views you personally agree with to be posted on this forum.
And yes. I am embarrassed. I was set up and didn't see it coming and apparently too stupid to see it as it continued. I played right into your game. I was trusting the people I had met on this forum to be genuine with me. You won. You made me look like a fool.
Also, I'm not sure if you noticed, but several other people also appear to feel a little betrayed and confused about what your scheme accomplished or was intended to accomplish.
I've had some side conversations here and the point I was making in those is the same I am trying to make here. I haven't felt comfortable in these kinds of situations because I normally don't open myself up. I thought I had found a group of people to share in my KISS & VV fanaticism.
I've said not-nice things, but I said them openly and honestly, thinking others were doing the same. Whether you like me or not...want to flame me or not...agree with me or not, I respect your right to air your truth.
So, please feel free to continue. I'm just being straight with you.
poserboy71 wrote:Most of the "BETRAYED" are smart enough to comprehend the point of the actions and the meaning behind them .I explained them ,multiple times ,VERY CLEARLY . You are just shitting in a bowl and attempting to stir it . You are the only one that is keeping your bitch going. DOUBLEV awaits you m'dear.
MeteoraXV wrote:Cmon man erg2 is a cool fcking guy don't leave too!!
note: I included this because it's true!
poserboy71 wrote:You're acting like a fucking moron. Everyone can have their own views here. In fact, I love that about this place.
HOWEVER, When some people use their posts to accuse without proof, make dead dog jokes, wife-beating jokes,wig jokes, etc, THAT'S when I will step in.
You weren't set up and you didn't look like a fool.
In fact, quite the contrary, you stood up for the VVFF and that has been noticed by everyone.
If you're going to continue this , allow me to send you a box of tissues. If you FINALLY realize why things had to be this way, then let's enjoy this forum TOGETHER !!!
erg2 wrote:I'm just trying to have an adult conversation and express how I feel and perceive the situation. I can't help but to think that if you truly felt good about what went down you wouldn't have so much anger.
Straight up, I feel betrayed and used. You want me to leave? That's OK, man.
I'm sorry this all happened.
poserboy71 wrote:Funny thing is that I'm not angry. It is funny to me that you cannot see why things had to happen the way they did. You continue to play THE VICTIM.
From reading your posts, it seems that you still carry some issues around because you were always picked last for kick ball. I'm an adult and I say "FUCK OFF" when someone is ignorant to logic.
Stay or go.
And I was not the only one unleashed upon:
Bendeko53 wrote:why the fuck is everyone taking poserboy's side in this? he fucking stabbed vic, dino, tj, etc in the back by giving out their personal information to some fucking random (spyder) who obviously has their worst intrests in mind. granted spyder is 99.9% vinnie but thats still a pretty dog move. if someone trusts you with their personal information you dont fucking give that information to anyone.
vinnie obviously has some SERIOUS issues but stabbing people in the back and bending over for him just so he will 'like' you is is pretty low in my book.
poserboy71 wrote:Benny, Benny, Benny- YOUR book must be Dr. Seuss. You can't read and comprehend well.
PLEASE RE-READ and then pass judgement. No one was compromised or back-stabbed. In fact , it was quite the contrary. No one bent-over for anal pleasures or jumped through hoops.
Even though I didn't post here at the time, I asked permission of everyone to give Spyder their information.
Everyone was well aware of the good will that I was trying to make happen. Spyder is representing Vinnie very badly. I released those e-mails to expose Spyder. Vinnie needs to see who is representing him.
Vinnie is worth the effort, Spyder isn't .
Is Spyder Vinnie ??? Please prove it.
I have been catching up on my VVFF reading. You newbies better shape up.
Cernex wrote:I'm new here, reason why I really don't mind what Poserboy did, but on an entirely different thing: I really fail to see the point of going trough all that only to discover something that we all knew: that Vinnie's forum are a total piece of crap. I mean, isn't that the reason why we're all here to being with?
I mean, I apologize if I'm coming up a bit out of the blue on this, but am I really who fails to see the point of this whole thing? And, watching people reactions, I'm really starting to get the vibe this whole exercise, in the long run, did more harm than good.
Nothing new to read or discover here, and if anything, the only new thing is that some people were used in something they didn't even know.
I don't know guys... my honest opinion? This whole thing just wasn't worth all the troubles.
EDIT: I thought my message was a bit vague so I'm going to be a bit more clear: I'm NOT against what Rick did, and if anything, I would've liked to be part of it (as long as I knew what was going on). HOWEVER, I still fail to see the point, and I REALLY don't think it was worth all the fuss. That's ALL.
To conclude. No, as Cernex puts it, I didn't get the point...but I wasn't truly upset. I would've loved to pull one over on Vinnie. Dick move? Ab-so-freekin-lutely!!
SKADOOSH!!
erg2
PS- to those who were privately commiserating with me via email about not feeling great or even understanding Poserboy71's secret plan...sorry that I carried the charade on their, but I didn't want to blow my cover.